{"id":1921,"date":"2023-07-22T07:24:44","date_gmt":"2023-07-22T07:24:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/murrayslatter.me\/?p=1921"},"modified":"2024-06-18T08:17:00","modified_gmt":"2024-06-17T22:17:00","slug":"sme-to-leader-9-managing-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/murrayslatter.me\/?p=1921","title":{"rendered":"SME to Leader #9: Managing Conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>As a subject matter expert (SME), it can be challenging to transition into a leadership role where you are responsible for managing teams. A critical skill you need to develop is in managing conflict. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conflict is inevitable in any team, and as a leader, you need to be able to manage it effectively to maintain a positive and productive work environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the 9th post in a <a href=\"https:\/\/murrayslatter.me\/?p=1912\">12-part series<\/a>, if you have landed here, please check out the series to further develop your leadership tool kit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Managing Conflict<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some tips for managing conflict and dealing with differences and disagreements:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Understand the root cause of the conflict:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The first step in managing conflict is to understand the underlying issues that are causing it. As a leader, you need to be a good listener and communicator to identify the source of the conflict and find a way to resolve it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-amazon wp-block-embed-amazon\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/read.amazon.com.au\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=ll1&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_NURsi1hzmWiQcp&#038;asin=0143118447&#038;tag=bywineexecu00-22\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stay neutral and objective: <\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s essential to stay neutral and objective when managing conflict. Avoid taking sides or showing favoritism, and focus on finding a solution that works for everyone involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Encourage open communication:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Encourage team members to communicate openly and honestly about their concerns and opinions. Create a safe space for open dialogue, and encourage everyone to share their perspectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-amazon wp-block-embed-amazon\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/read.amazon.com.au\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=ll1&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_lANuoCrnBPsSck&#038;asin=0071775307&#038;tag=bywineexecu00-22\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Find common ground:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Look for areas of agreement or common ground between team members. Emphasize shared goals and objectives, and work together to find a mutually acceptable solution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Use active listening:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Use active listening skills to understand the concerns of all parties involved. Reflect back what you&#8217;ve heard to ensure you&#8217;ve understood the issue correctly and to demonstrate that you&#8217;re actively listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-amazon wp-block-embed-amazon\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Fierce Conversations: Achieving success in work and in life, one conversation at a time\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/read.amazon.com.au\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=ll1&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_6EJq7H74QvkBQ1&#038;asin=0349417369&#038;tag=bywineexecu00-22\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stay calm and composed:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>As a leader, it&#8217;s essential to remain calm and composed in the face of conflict. Avoid getting emotional or defensive, and focus on finding a solution that works for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Seek outside help if needed:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If the conflict is particularly challenging to manage, seek outside help from a mediator or HR professional. Bringing in a neutral third party can help facilitate a resolution that satisfies everyone involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">An essential skill for any leader<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Managing conflict is an essential skill for any leader. By staying neutral, encouraging open communication, finding common ground, using active listening, staying calm, and seeking outside help if needed, you can effectively manage conflict and promote a positive and productive work environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-amazon wp-block-embed-amazon\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Getting to Yes: Negotiating an agreement without giving in\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/read.amazon.com.au\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=ll1&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_o8n19HMtyIfFik&#038;asin=1847940935&#038;tag=bywineexecu00-22\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mindset<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember that conflict is a natural part of working in teams, and as a leader, your role is to manage it effectively to ensure everyone can work together productively. With practice and persistence, you can develop the skills you need to manage conflict and become an effective leader of teams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Helpful References:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" style=\"list-style-type:1\">\n<li>&#8220;Managing Conflict in Work Teams&#8221; by Mary Shapiro and Susan Wheeler, Harvard Business Review<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Handbook-Conflict-Resolution-3rd-Practice\/dp\/B07PJ52Q81?crid=14XLX3BTP0BH1&amp;keywords=The+Handbook+of+Conflict+Resolution%3A+Theory+and+Practice%22&amp;qid=1689632416&amp;s=audible&amp;sprefix=the+handbook+of+conflict+resolution+theory+and+practice+%2Caudible%2C246&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=d32d229237a99b679030041320cdb88a&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Handbook of Conflict Resolution: Theory and Practice&#8221;<\/a> by Morton Deutsch and Peter T. Coleman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second\/dp\/0071775307?encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1689632443&amp;sr=1-2&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=c681283a852ee597968951f54ba1fbd8&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High&#8221;<\/a> by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Thought Leaders<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to managing conflict, there are many thinkers and experts who have contributed valuable insights and strategies. Here are some examples:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" style=\"list-style-type:1\">\n<li><strong>Kenneth W. Thomas: <\/strong>Thomas is a management consultant and author who has written extensively on conflict resolution. He is perhaps best known for his &#8220;Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument,&#8221; a widely-used assessment tool that helps individuals and teams better understand their conflict resolution styles.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Susan Scott: <\/strong>Scott is the author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Fierce-Conversations-Achieving-success-conversation\/dp\/0349417369?crid=1PBO1HEI2EL1F&amp;keywords=%22Fierce+Conversations%2C%22&amp;qid=1689632544&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=fierce+conversations+%2Cstripbooks%2C216&amp;sr=1-3&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=1f9750ee8322f2e78c78609a76d88ddc&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Fierce Conversations,&#8221;<\/a> a book that emphasizes the importance of having open, honest, and direct conversations in order to resolve conflicts. She argues that avoiding difficult conversations only leads to further problems down the line.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>William Ury: <\/strong>Ury is a negotiation expert and author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Getting-Yes-Negotiating-agreement-without\/dp\/1847940935?crid=KDN4H7PO2H0L&amp;keywords=%22Getting+to+Yes%3A+Negotiating+Agreement+Without+Giving+In.%22&amp;qid=1689632575&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=getting+to+yes+negotiating+agreement+without+giving+in+%2Cstripbooks%2C220&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecuti-22&amp;linkId=0d6c4e3c671b7c8b8d3323835f52375a&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In.&#8221; <\/a>His approach to conflict resolution involves focusing on common interests and finding mutually beneficial solutions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Crucial Conversations:<\/strong> This book, co-authored by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler, provides a framework for having difficult conversations in a productive and respectful manner. It emphasizes the importance of active listening and seeking to understand the other person&#8217;s perspective.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Gary Namie: <\/strong>Namie is a psychologist and co-founder of the Workplace Bullying Institute. His work focuses on identifying and addressing workplace bullying, which can be a major source of conflict and tension within teams.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Separating Great from Good <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>What separates great conflict managers from good ones is often their ability to remain calm and composed in the face of conflict, to actively listen and seek to understand all perspectives, and to approach conflict resolution as an opportunity for growth and improvement rather than a problem to be solved. Great conflict managers are also skilled at de-escalating tensions, finding common ground, and building trust and rapport with all parties involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choice references <\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" style=\"list-style-type:1\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Difficult-Conversations-Discuss-What-Matters\/dp\/0143118447?crid=15B4S4MMWEVOO&amp;keywords=%22Difficult+Conversations%3A+How+to+Discuss+What+Matters+Most%22&amp;qid=1689632770&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=difficult+conversations+how+to+discuss+what+matters+most+%2Cstripbooks%2C231&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=948b1fecc76c130bf0eea0cf47339923&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most&#8221;<\/a> by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second\/dp\/0071775307?encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1689632443&amp;sr=1-2&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=1db4c2a81fc2fe46e6cad5eb6b6d7f87&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High&#8221;<\/a> by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Getting-Yes-Negotiating-agreement-without\/dp\/1847940935?crid=KDN4H7PO2H0L&amp;keywords=%22Getting+to+Yes%3A+Negotiating+Agreement+Without+Giving+In.%22&amp;qid=1689632575&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=getting+to+yes+negotiating+agreement+without+giving+in+%2Cstripbooks%2C220&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=1e7e0695564fc66b93628fa4f25d216b&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In&#8221;<\/a> by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton &#8211;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Managing-Transitions-Making-Most-Change-ebook\/dp\/B01HPVHAMC?crid=2K30LSFZJEI3C&amp;keywords=%22Managing+Transitions%3A+Making+the+Most+of+Change%22&amp;qid=1689632834&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=managing+transitions+making+the+most+of+change+%2Cstripbooks%2C223&amp;sr=1-2&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=fd5e91871d56321df7158b525f5a15cf&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;Managing Transitions: Making the Most of Change&#8221; <\/a>by William Bridges and Susan Bridges<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Five-Dysfunctions-Team-Leadership-Fable\/dp\/0739304739?crid=1BJHY6JM8PAE0&amp;keywords=%22The+Five+Dysfunctions+of+a+Team%3A+A+Leadership+Fable%22&amp;qid=1689632856&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=the+five+dysfunctions+of+a+team+a+leadership+fable+%2Cstripbooks%2C219&amp;sr=1-2&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=bywineexecu00-22&amp;linkId=a7e396e06e403d49fd17b0c3e2e04a2a&amp;language=en_AU&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&#8220;The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable&#8221;<\/a> by Patrick Lencioni<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Further great references<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>here are some research papers and articles from various academic sources that might be useful for your blog post:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" style=\"list-style-type:1\">\n<li>&#8220;Managing conflict in work teams&#8221; by Kristin J. Behfar, Randall S. Peterson, Elizabeth A. Mannix (Harvard Business Review) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;The role of conflict in team creativity: integrating the opposing forces perspective within the creative context&#8221; by Gilad Chen, Christina E. Shalley (Academy of Management Journal) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;The downside of teams?&#8221; by Leigh Thompson (Harvard Business Review) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Managing team conflict&#8221; by Ruth Wageman, Mary Ann Glick (Harvard Business Review) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Managing conflict in cross-functional teams: the influence of team identification&#8221; by Martijn Veltkamp, Naomi Ellemers (Group Processes &amp; Intergroup Relations) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;The role of trust in conflict resolution: evidence from long-term environmental agreements&#8221; by Jon Hovi, Detlef F. Sprinz, Arild Underdal (Journal of Peace Research) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Managing team conflict during a crisis: a study of Chinese firms during COVID-19&#8221; by Yixuan Zhang, Jian Zhao, Nan Jia (Journal of Business Research) <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Antecedents of team conflict and its influence on team performance: a structural equation modeling approach&#8221; by Sumitava Chatterjee, Kajari Mukherjee, Arnab Mukherjee (Journal of Business Research) <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a subject matter expert (SME), it can be challenging to transition into a leadership role where you are responsible for managing teams. A critical skill you need to develop is in managing conflict. 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